Hot Sauce
How do you feel about putting hot sauce in a child's mouth as a punishment? And does age make a difference?
skeleton key
My son lost the skeleton key that goes to my china cabinet. Any ideas on how I can get it open or get another key that will fit?
Baked Potato Bar
I am getting ready to have a party and decided to have a baked potato bar. How long should I cook the potatoes for and on what temperature? Side note: I am cooking for about 10-15 people.
Plus what kind of toppings do you like that I should make sure to have?
Here are some I was thinking of:
Chili
Sloppy Joe mix
Broccoli
Cheese
Sour Cream
Chives
Bacon
Any other suggestions that I might be missing?
Thank you!
Plus what kind of toppings do you like that I should make sure to have?
Here are some I was thinking of:
Chili
Sloppy Joe mix
Broccoli
Cheese
Sour Cream
Chives
Bacon
Any other suggestions that I might be missing?
Thank you!
Stupid Doctors Office
A vent and a question...
I was supposed to have an appointment today to have my IUD taken out so my husband and I can start trying for a second child. I was soo excited. I had to reschedule the appointment from last Monday within 24 hours, except the doctors office is closed Friday Saturday and Sunday. So in order to do that you have to let them know by Thursday.Well, the doctors office called this morning at 6:30 waking me and my 3 1/2 year old up telling me that they need to reschedule me and the only time they could get me in is on Thursday. I was a little pissed off to say the least. My appointment was supposed to be at 1:00 so they didn't even give me 8 hours notice! If I hadn't given them 24 hour notice on their schedule I would have been charged a $50.00 cancellation fee! But them... They don't get anything! I'm extremely mad and irate! And when I called to tell my husband he was also. So... my question is: Should they be able to do that without giving some sort of discount or should they have to give the same notice to their patience?
I was supposed to have an appointment today to have my IUD taken out so my husband and I can start trying for a second child. I was soo excited. I had to reschedule the appointment from last Monday within 24 hours, except the doctors office is closed Friday Saturday and Sunday. So in order to do that you have to let them know by Thursday.Well, the doctors office called this morning at 6:30 waking me and my 3 1/2 year old up telling me that they need to reschedule me and the only time they could get me in is on Thursday. I was a little pissed off to say the least. My appointment was supposed to be at 1:00 so they didn't even give me 8 hours notice! If I hadn't given them 24 hour notice on their schedule I would have been charged a $50.00 cancellation fee! But them... They don't get anything! I'm extremely mad and irate! And when I called to tell my husband he was also. So... my question is: Should they be able to do that without giving some sort of discount or should they have to give the same notice to their patience?
have you tried it?
Has anyone tried KY yours and mine? ITS AWESOME! If you have how did you like it? If not you should totally try it.
Mexican Food
Does anyone have a really yummy EASY recipe for
Spanish Rice
The kind of Mexican pulled pork to put in a tortilla (not sure what it's called)
And any other really good Mexican dish
I'm having a total craving for Mexican food!
Spanish Rice
The kind of Mexican pulled pork to put in a tortilla (not sure what it's called)
And any other really good Mexican dish
I'm having a total craving for Mexican food!
I want to do it in public.
But not really. If my husband and I were caught by a cop having sex in the back of our car (up a canyon or in a parking lot or something), would we be arrested or something? Or would he just tell us to hike up our pants and go home?
I'm going to vent...& a question
A simple question was asked.. a SAHM wanted to know somewhere cool in Utah county where she could take her little girl's 2 year old pictures. A rude commenter posted this:
"'OMG... another mormon mom trying to start a photography business.
"I'm gonna go to law school so I know how to defend myself if I get arrested"'
I have something to say to you and people like you, and I want to make sure you get it, LOUD and CLEAR
I am SO sick and tired of people like you who SHOULD keep their mouth shut but don't have the ability. Why do you waste your time putting other people down??? Why are you so arrogant that you think you have the ability to put people down? I have some advice for you. Grow up. Find something CONSTRUCTIVE to do with your time. Commend instead of Condemn.
"'OMG... another mormon mom trying to start a photography business.
"I'm gonna go to law school so I know how to defend myself if I get arrested"'
I have something to say to you and people like you, and I want to make sure you get it, LOUD and CLEAR
I am SO sick and tired of people like you who SHOULD keep their mouth shut but don't have the ability. Why do you waste your time putting other people down??? Why are you so arrogant that you think you have the ability to put people down? I have some advice for you. Grow up. Find something CONSTRUCTIVE to do with your time. Commend instead of Condemn.
The real amazing thing to me here is that this person has the ability to take pictures of their own kids. They are taking the initiative. I think it's GREAT she wants to build her talent. Good job mom. Whether you are using it for yourself or other people. I'm glad you aren't one of those lazy people reading comments on a blog trying to tear people down. I'm glad you are ambitious enough to save your money for a camera, care about your little girl enough to take pictures of her, and aren't afraid to try something new. Good for you!!!
To the commenter:
Why do you take the time to put someone down when you could easily pass over it or build them??? What makes you say the MEAN thing instead of the nice thing?? I just DON'T get it.
To the commenter:
Why do you take the time to put someone down when you could easily pass over it or build them??? What makes you say the MEAN thing instead of the nice thing?? I just DON'T get it.
Question for stay-at-home-moms
For those of you that are stay-at-home-moms, I have a question regarding the relationship between you and your husband.
A little background: Before we got married (six years ago) I told my husband that I wanted to be a SAHM and asked if he had any issues with it. He was a little hesitant but we talked about it and he agreed. We both have worked full time, while attending school for the past five years. I graduated first, then he did. We each wanted to get an education and be somewhat financially secure before we decided to try for a child. We had our little boy four months ago. I quit my job (as was always the plan) and my husband unexpectedly lost his job (company went under.) He got another one, but it pays significantly less, and he detests what he does. Obviously he is looking for another job, but he is unhappy where he is and our bills are BARELY getting paid each month.
My husband is now kind of pressuring me to get a job (part-time) or work from home or something. We are making it financially, but by the skin of our teeth. (I feel very strongly that FOR ME being a SAHM is what I want/need to do. I feel that I've paid my dues in the working world and waited to have a baby until we had more security. I also feel that a good job will eventually come and we'll be fine.) Anyway, we talked and he understood. I told him I'd rather be poor than put my boy in daycare. I still feel some silent resentment from him.
Also, since I've quit my job, my husband has been asking me what I do all day. He always seems a little bugged if the house is sometimes dirty, or if I haven't done laundry, or there's no dinner. (This isn't a common occurrence, but it does happen. Plus I'm a new mom and I'm trying to get my new life more structured.) He is truly puzzled because "I sit home all day" and "oftentimes nothing gets done." I've tried to explain what my days are like, but I'm frustrated that I have to justify myself to him every day.
The reason this is all so weird to me is my husband HAS NEVER EVER been like this. I have literally not heard him say these things or act this way in the six years of marriage and two years of dating. I'm just so confused. What am I missing? How can I help him understand? Any one go through something similar? Any male point of views?
A little background: Before we got married (six years ago) I told my husband that I wanted to be a SAHM and asked if he had any issues with it. He was a little hesitant but we talked about it and he agreed. We both have worked full time, while attending school for the past five years. I graduated first, then he did. We each wanted to get an education and be somewhat financially secure before we decided to try for a child. We had our little boy four months ago. I quit my job (as was always the plan) and my husband unexpectedly lost his job (company went under.) He got another one, but it pays significantly less, and he detests what he does. Obviously he is looking for another job, but he is unhappy where he is and our bills are BARELY getting paid each month.
My husband is now kind of pressuring me to get a job (part-time) or work from home or something. We are making it financially, but by the skin of our teeth. (I feel very strongly that FOR ME being a SAHM is what I want/need to do. I feel that I've paid my dues in the working world and waited to have a baby until we had more security. I also feel that a good job will eventually come and we'll be fine.) Anyway, we talked and he understood. I told him I'd rather be poor than put my boy in daycare. I still feel some silent resentment from him.
Also, since I've quit my job, my husband has been asking me what I do all day. He always seems a little bugged if the house is sometimes dirty, or if I haven't done laundry, or there's no dinner. (This isn't a common occurrence, but it does happen. Plus I'm a new mom and I'm trying to get my new life more structured.) He is truly puzzled because "I sit home all day" and "oftentimes nothing gets done." I've tried to explain what my days are like, but I'm frustrated that I have to justify myself to him every day.
The reason this is all so weird to me is my husband HAS NEVER EVER been like this. I have literally not heard him say these things or act this way in the six years of marriage and two years of dating. I'm just so confused. What am I missing? How can I help him understand? Any one go through something similar? Any male point of views?
Chocolate Question
Have you ever had a Violet Crumble? If you haven't, I hope you get to eat one at some point in your life. If you have had one before, then you will know of the deliciousness that I speak. I cannot find these candy bars anywhere. Does anyone know where I can purchase a Violet Crumble in Utah? I am having a really hard time finding a place that sells them.
Pantry Secrets - Homemade Bread
Have any of you used the homemade bread recipe from Pantry Secrets? I know that it was developed in Utah which is a dry climate and a high altitude, but I live in Portland which is basically at sea level and humid, especially in the winter because it rains everyday.
When I made a loaf of bread it didn't rise much (even though I followed the recipe exactly and let it rise 25 minutes) and it wasn't fluffy like it's supposed to be. Then when I put it in a plastic bag the bag filled up with condensation. I obviously know that I need to use less water, I just don't know how much and I really don't want to waste ingredients on tester loafs until I figure it out. Any advice?
When I made a loaf of bread it didn't rise much (even though I followed the recipe exactly and let it rise 25 minutes) and it wasn't fluffy like it's supposed to be. Then when I put it in a plastic bag the bag filled up with condensation. I obviously know that I need to use less water, I just don't know how much and I really don't want to waste ingredients on tester loafs until I figure it out. Any advice?
Valentines Day Ideas
I want to do something really sweet for my husband this year, but I am not quite sure what to do. We just had a new baby and probably won't go out because of it, so I am thinking this year it will be more of a family celebration. I still want it to be special though. Any ideas? What are any of you doing? Also, any ideas for your kids? I generally like to make their day special as well.
Camping spots in Utah?
Please tell me good places in Utah to camp. I am looking at booking summer camping, and am looking for good campgrounds! TIA.
Annulment
I was married to my ex for about a year and he would NOT have sex with me (among other issues). We ended up getting an annulment. Whenever I mention "annulment" people always ask what it is. What is the difference between a divorce and an annulment?
BUT is it ART?
What makes something art? What kind of art do you like?
I ask because I have never really understood abstract art, just never really liked it. Just seems like a bunch of squiggles and scribbles that a kid could do. I even watched a documentary about this girl named Marla who was selling abstract paintings for THOUSANDS of dollars when she was just four years old! Seemed a little ridiculous to me.
We know a person who is suddenly an "artist" - painting and doing art shows and all this and I just don't get it. I mean, its colorful, but I wouldn't spend money on it, yet people ARE and I just don't understand.
I ask because I have never really understood abstract art, just never really liked it. Just seems like a bunch of squiggles and scribbles that a kid could do. I even watched a documentary about this girl named Marla who was selling abstract paintings for THOUSANDS of dollars when she was just four years old! Seemed a little ridiculous to me.
We know a person who is suddenly an "artist" - painting and doing art shows and all this and I just don't get it. I mean, its colorful, but I wouldn't spend money on it, yet people ARE and I just don't understand.
Group Interview Question
I have an interview coming up in a few days and it's a group interview. I've never done one of those before and I'm pretty nervous. Any advise on what questions to expect, what to say, what NOT to say, etc?
Lancet Retracts Article That Started the Autism-Vaccination Nonsense
Not a question, but since we've talked about it before:
This was the article that started the whole debacle of vaccine related autism. The investigation found that 8 of the 12 "consecutively referred*" patients were actually selected from the primary author's birthday party and paid $8 if he could draw blood from them. He also never received approval from the ethics board for some of his research, and was known to perform painful procedures (like spinal taps) on children without clear justification for why the procedures were needed.
A panel is Britain will now discuss whether Dr. Wakefield's (the principal author) medical license should be revoked.
*consecutively referred means that patients were recruited as they came, and not selected for inclusion by the researcher.
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Following the judgment of the UK General Medical Council's Fitness to Practise Panel on Jan 28, 2010, it has become clear that several elements of the 1998 paper by Wakefield et al are incorrect, contrary to the findings of an earlier investigation. In particular, the claims in the original paper that children were "consecutively referred" and that investigations were "approved" by the local ethics committee have been proven to be false. Therefore we fully retract this paper from the published record. (Lancet editors)
This was the article that started the whole debacle of vaccine related autism. The investigation found that 8 of the 12 "consecutively referred*" patients were actually selected from the primary author's birthday party and paid $8 if he could draw blood from them. He also never received approval from the ethics board for some of his research, and was known to perform painful procedures (like spinal taps) on children without clear justification for why the procedures were needed.
A panel is Britain will now discuss whether Dr. Wakefield's (the principal author) medical license should be revoked.
*consecutively referred means that patients were recruited as they came, and not selected for inclusion by the researcher.
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Shout out
I just wanted to make a shout out...like words of praise for those that didn't know what it means! Anyways this shout out goes to Deb. I think that she is great! She is always answering everyone's questions without a put down. Thanks! It is the way this blog is supposed to be. Again thanks!
What to wear after giving birth..
I am having my first baby pretty soon and I have some questions about the hospital.
What do you wear after you have your baby? Do most of you stay in your hospital gowns for the 2 days you are there, or do you change into something else? Like pajamas... And if you do change, what is the most comfortable thing to wear while having to deal with all the bleeding and such? Or should I say the most convenient. I just want to be comfortable in the hospital, but I don't want to feel gross and ugly either. Please give me some advice all you Mom's out there! Thanks :)
What do you wear after you have your baby? Do most of you stay in your hospital gowns for the 2 days you are there, or do you change into something else? Like pajamas... And if you do change, what is the most comfortable thing to wear while having to deal with all the bleeding and such? Or should I say the most convenient. I just want to be comfortable in the hospital, but I don't want to feel gross and ugly either. Please give me some advice all you Mom's out there! Thanks :)
LDS-appropriate book suggestions needed - quick!
Beloved's sister in law just gave birth & will be in the hospital for a few days. I don't really know her, but the family is LDS (I'm not) and I know she reads, but not what she reads. Beloved has informed me that books without cursing, sex, alcohol/drug use, murder, etc., are to be avoided - SIL is a stricter Mormon than others. I am a voracious reader, but I can't readily think of any authors/books in which none of those issues are present. Any suggestions?! I'd prefer to give her books, which I know she'd appreciate, but if I can't find anything, I'm happy to give her (suitable) magazines (I know which ones are OK, as I've bought magazines for Beloved's mom before).
TIA!
TIA!
Take off your shoes, please.
Is it tacky to ask guests to take off their shoes when they come into your house?
Need Ideas
My son is turning 2 this weekend and my parents want to come see us. Anyone have any ideas for a toddler friendly activity in SLC? We've thought of the zoo and Discovery Gateway. I've never been to Discovery Gateway, is it worth the admission?
SAHF?
How do all of you feel about a Stay At Home Father? Do you know anyone who is? I am contemplating going off birth control in the next year or so, but I have *never* wanted to be a Stay At Home Mom. I know many women do that, & that's great for them, but I've never wanted to do that. The only way I would have a child is if I could continue working. No, I'm not going to save the world, but I am going to save myself... I just can't be a SAHM. Beloved says he's OK with being a SAHF, but he also says that he'd get bored with "just one child" and would want to work in some capacity. I've told him that being a stay-at-home parent is more "work" than he imagines, but... here we are. Anyway, I'm just curious.
PS - Before you ask, babysitting from family isn't really an option. My mom might be able to do it, but I'd never assume that a woman in her late 60s would sign up for this. His family isn't an option, for various reasons. Besides, I firmly believe that if the biological parents aren't able to care for the child, they shouldn't have said child. It is a choice, after all.
PPS - Realistically, I don't have the option of leaving and coming back. I am a government worker, and if I left, I would lose all seniority, and basically have to start all over again, which I'm not willing to do. I love my job - it's what I got my bachelor's for - and I'm not willing to give it up so easily. Plus, I'd be giving up a good paycheck and benefits, which would only benefit any kid I had anyway.
PS - Before you ask, babysitting from family isn't really an option. My mom might be able to do it, but I'd never assume that a woman in her late 60s would sign up for this. His family isn't an option, for various reasons. Besides, I firmly believe that if the biological parents aren't able to care for the child, they shouldn't have said child. It is a choice, after all.
PPS - Realistically, I don't have the option of leaving and coming back. I am a government worker, and if I left, I would lose all seniority, and basically have to start all over again, which I'm not willing to do. I love my job - it's what I got my bachelor's for - and I'm not willing to give it up so easily. Plus, I'd be giving up a good paycheck and benefits, which would only benefit any kid I had anyway.
Steel-Cut or Not?
So what is the deal with steel-cut oatmeal? Is it better for you than quick oats?
I keep hearing about it but, I don't know what all the hype is.
Thanks for your help.
I keep hearing about it but, I don't know what all the hype is.
Thanks for your help.
Nursery Issues
My son is almost 2 1/2, so he has been in nursery for close to a year now. He had a few issues with it at first, so my husband and I took turns staying with him for about 4-5 months. After that, we moved to a new ward and he has been doing GREAT since then. Absolutely no problems at all, he loved going to nursery and wouldn't even tell me good bye. I was so happy because I thought he was just confident and happy without me.
Well starting last Sunday, when I left he cried. I waited outside of the door and he calmed down after about 5 minutes, then did great for the rest of nursery. (I checked on him several times).
But today, when I went to leave, he came unglued. I hugged him and told him it was okay, and that I would be right back. After I left I waited outside of the door to see if he would calm down, but he just kept crying harder and louder. After several minutes I went back in nursery with him. He was glued to my lap and didn't want me to leave. I stayed about 20 minutes, then handed him to his teacher and told him I would be back. He totally freaked out. I left for a few minutes and when I got back, he was still bawling hysterically and would not be comforted by any of the teachers. I just gave up and we went home. :(
I am so frustrated. My child who I thought was so well-adjusted and confident (and who usually is) is suddenly acting like this. I don't know what to think or how to handle the situation. I don't think anything happened that would make him not like nursery all of a sudden, but who knows? Nothing has changed in our family life recently.
Should my husband and I go back to taking turns staying in there with him for a while? OR, Let him cry with the teachers (who he barely knows)? I worry that if we let him cry and just leave him, it will only make things worse. Plus I hate hearing him cry and knowing that all he wants is mommy or daddy. Ugh, this is SO FRUSTRATING. HELP!
Well starting last Sunday, when I left he cried. I waited outside of the door and he calmed down after about 5 minutes, then did great for the rest of nursery. (I checked on him several times).
But today, when I went to leave, he came unglued. I hugged him and told him it was okay, and that I would be right back. After I left I waited outside of the door to see if he would calm down, but he just kept crying harder and louder. After several minutes I went back in nursery with him. He was glued to my lap and didn't want me to leave. I stayed about 20 minutes, then handed him to his teacher and told him I would be back. He totally freaked out. I left for a few minutes and when I got back, he was still bawling hysterically and would not be comforted by any of the teachers. I just gave up and we went home. :(
I am so frustrated. My child who I thought was so well-adjusted and confident (and who usually is) is suddenly acting like this. I don't know what to think or how to handle the situation. I don't think anything happened that would make him not like nursery all of a sudden, but who knows? Nothing has changed in our family life recently.
Should my husband and I go back to taking turns staying in there with him for a while? OR, Let him cry with the teachers (who he barely knows)? I worry that if we let him cry and just leave him, it will only make things worse. Plus I hate hearing him cry and knowing that all he wants is mommy or daddy. Ugh, this is SO FRUSTRATING. HELP!
speaking of purging or collecting...
do you have a magic number in your head on how many shirts, pants, pajamas etc.... a person/your child should have? I have too many clothes for my kids, wondering what all to throw out to have the right amount of clothes in their dresser or closet.
Guilt over purging?
Wondering if anyone out there feels guilty when they go through their kids toys/clothes just stuff around the house to get rid of it?
I feel I have this problem, which results in too much clutter, am I alone in this? Any nice advice?
I feel I have this problem, which results in too much clutter, am I alone in this? Any nice advice?
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